Co-parenting
A fair reading of your co-parenting messages
When every handover turns into an argument, it is hard to see the conversation clearly. Upload your WhatsApp chat and get a calm, quoted account of what was agreed, what changed and where things went wrong, read by the same rules for both of you.
- Findings quote the messages they rest on
- Names in the chat replaced before the AI reads it
- Refunded automatically if a report fails
- Built in Manchester by Debut Web Consultants
AI-assisted analysis of the messages you supply. It is not legal evidence and not an expert report. Only for conversations you were part of.
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What it helps you see
- Arrangements: who asked for what, what was agreed and when, and what happened next.
- Handover arguments: how disagreements start and settle, quoted from both sides.
- Changed accounts: where a later message describes an earlier one differently, with both messages side by side.
- Commitments: promises and agreed plans from each parent, and what the chat later shows about them.
Both parents, same rules
Every check is run on every participant in the same way, including whoever uploaded the chat. If a check finds nothing for one of you, the report says so in the same words it uses for the other. Ordinary explanations are weighed first: changed plans, work, a call in between, a mix-up about which week it was. Each finding then says how sure the reading is and why.
Which report to choose
- Claim consistency
- Whether each person's account holds together over time, checked against what the chat itself records
- Denial and contradiction patterns
- Where one person denies, minimises or rewrites what the chat itself records, with both messages quoted
- Relationship analysis
- In-depth analysis of relationship dynamics and communication patterns
The sample report is built from a made-up co-parenting chat about handovers, school-trip money and a child's tablet, so you can see exactly how findings are set out. See a sample report
Before you rely on it
A report is an AI reading of the messages you supply. It isn't legal evidence, and it can't see calls, conversations at the door or anything said in another chat. If you are in family proceedings or mediation, keep the original export unedited and ask your solicitor or mediator how to use what you find.
Questions people ask
- Will the report take my side?
- No. Both parents are read by the same rules, including whoever uploaded the chat. The report quotes both sides and says where the messages don't settle a question.
- Can I use it in court or mediation?
- It isn't legal evidence or an expert report. It can help you find and organise the messages that matter before you speak to a solicitor or mediator. Take their advice on anything formal.
- What happens to our children's names?
- Participant names, phone numbers, email addresses and links in the chat text are replaced with labels before the AI reads it, and other people mentioned become Person 1, Person 2. This is automatic and can miss a nickname or an unusual spelling, so check the preview. Photos and voice notes can't be anonymised, so attach only the ones you need.
- Does it say who is the better parent?
- No. It doesn't score, rate or label anyone. It describes what the messages show, quotes them and says how sure each reading is.
Start with a free preview
Upload the export and a short free preview runs first, so you can see the chat was read correctly. If you want the full report, you see an itemised quote before you pay. Reports start from $13.99 / £10.99. Get my free preview
The sample report is built from a made-up chat, so you can see how findings are set out before you upload your own. See a sample report